Having high standards and holding all men to them is a Schelling point - a natural coordination point for people. Having high standards for men and letting women by isn't and the result will be that no one is held to high standards.https://twitter.com/PALE_Primate/status/1085468653213151232 …
Ex. from the Navy - not just an incompetent woman but a whole culture of failure which had to be tolerated because lowering expectations of women is just too obvious and in everyone's face - lowering *all* standards though - that doesn't lead to noticing https://www.navytimes.com/news/your-navy/2019/01/14/worse-than-you-thought-inside-the-secret-fitzgerald-probe-the-navy-doesnt-want-you-to-read/ …