Ironically this is exactly the problem - men with a civilized background don't have the rape instinct for the same reason they don't steal - because men who didn't respect property got hung Result? These men experience this instinct as fear of women
If we return we need to preserve the knowledge that women will destroy monogamy given the chance The idea that women want monogamy because they benefit from it is insanely wrong - they're happy with it and better off under it but they're short term thinkers when given freedom