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In fact, I used to share these misconceptions myself! Five years ago I wouldn't have thought I'd want to sleep with a trans person. When I first came out myself, I assumed that only bisexuals would ever be into me. I couldn't imagine that a gay girl or straight guy could be.
Wrong on all counts, as it turns out. There's not a shortage of exclusively gynephilic people who are into me—and I'm far from the most cis-passing of trans women.
Likewise the experience of being intimate with trans women has (TMI ahoy) been kind of amazing. I'd go so far as to say that it's hard to grasp the full visceral truth of the slogan "trans women are women" until you've been there. It feels like being with a woman.
(Not necessarily the case for all trans women of course, and alas. If she's been presenting male for decades and came out yesterday she probably won't "feel" like a woman to most people.)
Whether or not someone "feels" like a woman is of course somewhat subjective and mysterious. But I can assure you that the experience is possible.
Arielle, however, is not only not interested in having this experience (which is totally fine, only do it if you really want to!), but she's seemingly intent on denying that anyone else has or can have this experience.
This arrogant presumption is exacerbated by Arielle's ignorant notion of what sex with trans women is like. She says: "I don't even like strap ons, I don't want to be penetrated at all!"
Anyone who knows what they're talking about knows that not wanting to be topped by a trans woman is unlikely to be a problem. Much more common is the opposite issue: chasers want us to top them and we have no interest in doing that.
Some trans women are into topping, but many if not most are not. Some trans women don't have penises at all, and some who do aren't interested in using them in any way.
You might think, "some trans women are attractive but I'm not into dicks." That might be less of a problem than you think. Would you be into one of those trans women going down on you?
Now again I really must emphasize that I'm not trying to persuade or coerce anyone into having sex with trans women. Repeat x 1000000: don't fuck a trans woman unless you think she's sexy as hell and are super into it.
But Arielle is not merely defending sexual autonomy and the right to choose who you fuck. If that were all she was doing I'd be in complete agreement.
But in fact she's pushing ignorant ideas about trans people and trans sexuality, she's erasing the experiences of everyone who is attracted to trans people, and she's using the whole issue as a weapon with which to malign us as homophobic, predatory, and entitled.
End thread. Could've done a whole video response but I only do one video a month and I have other topics to cover that are higher priorities. Peace 
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