I understand that trans people who have been out longer than me have experiences that I do not, and I do try to listen to those perspectives. However, I wish that, in turn, I were not treated like an inexperienced little child.
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So when people say "trust my experience: you can't persuade a bigot," I want to respond: "well, what about my experience? Am I supposed to just discard that?"
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Now I know many of you may generally agree with what I'm saying here but still think that this particular event is a really bad idea. And that's fine. That's allowed. I thank those of you with constructive criticism, and I will take it into consideration next time.
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Unfortunately, much of the criticism I've gotten has not been constructive. It has been intensely hostile and often outright libelous.
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Once the outrage is up and running, the empirical facts of the case are lost to the overwhelming sentiment that I am a traitor. And once that feeling takes hold, evidence must be constructed to justify it.
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Hence these unhinged inferences: year-old holocaust denial comment -> anti-Semitic group -> fascists (+ ticketed event) = ContraPoints is hosting a Nazi fundraiser.
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The purpose is to insist that I am as sinister and evil as possible. And twisted psychological motivations are stipulated to explain my behavior: I'm selling my soul for profit, am desperate for the approval of transphobes, etc.
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It's the same pattern of wild hyperbole, amplified half-truths, interpreting things in the least charitable possible way that leads to "Chris Ray Gun is a Nazi" and other overblown, outrage-driven articles of Twitterverse common knowledge.
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The point is not that CRG hasn't said shitty things. It's not that there aren't valid criticisms of my going to the Vancouver event. It's that an environment of wildly vitriolic & exaggerated accusations makes it difficult for the accused to hear anything but irrational rage.
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That's it for Thread 1. Gonna go refill my drink and start a new thread on how I'm going to do things differently from now on.
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This - if someone can reach a handful at an event or a discussion and help to soften hard edges, that is worth the effort. The few grow in time, and that is when you have a seismic shift. Chipped towards the patreon - this reminds me of what I've done with coworkers. One by one
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