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I was initially afraid other women would react to my presence with shock and horror, that it'd be a chorus of "GET OUT PERVERT!" "DOST THOU BLEED?" etc.
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When I started transing I was absolutely terrified of using women's bathrooms, but so far that's turned out to be surprisingly easy and painless.
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So first of all I'd just like to say a big fuck you to all the "transgender bathroom menace" scaremongers who made me have panic attacks when I had to pee for absolutely no reason.
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Also, I seem to enjoy around 80-90% visual passing privilege (it's my voice that outs me, otherwise strangers almost always default to "miss" and "ma'am"), so your mileage may vary.
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But the thing is, no one in public bathrooms is really scrutinizing you—unless of course you look like I do in the men's room: that's something of a sensation.
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So it makes SOOO much more sense for me to use the women's room, and I don't understand why this is even a debate (jk I do, the reason is transphobia).
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Here's what I do in public bathrooms: I walk in, I don't look at anyone, I go into the stall, then to the sink, wash my hands, and then spend 45 seconds fucking with my hair in front of the mirror.
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But in the women's room no one is looking at you because they're also fucking with their hair for 45 seconds. So in a way I'm actually more comfortable presenting female in the women's room than I was presenting male in the men's.
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The big disappointment is that, alas, there is exactly the same amount of piss on the seats in the women's room as in the men's. I don't know how that's possible, but it's a thing.
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I've literally never had an issue and I transitioned in 2003
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I’m so glad to hear it. I would guess most women dgaf or don’t actually know someone is transitioning.
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