Let's use this to think through the right way to respond when someone accuses you of doing something transphobic (or racist, sexist, etc.)https://twitter.com/ContraPoints/status/823314850759712768 …
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The unianimous cis opinion is that it's totally fine. Some trans people said it's totally fine.
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Other trans people said it's potentially problematic, but okay in my case because they know who I am and what I'm like.
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Still other trans people said it's definitely transphobic, & a couple said that my use of it is furthermore evidence that *I'm* transphobic.
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So what I have is 95% of people saying I'm totally fine, don't worry about it. And it's tempting to believe them. However...
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(It's also tempting to get defensive when I'm called transphobic—"That's outrageous! All my best friends are trans! etc etc")
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However, it's better to avoid these temptations. Cis people don't usually have very good intuitions about what's transphobic.
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And the fact that I have trans friends & care deeply about trans issues doesn't mean that I'm invulnerable to being inadvertently offensive.
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I do think that calling *me* transphobic because of this is unfair.
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I didn't take it that llamamall_ was calling you a transphobe, but that writing "mangirl" is a transphobic act
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someone else called me a transphobe
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