𝓝𝓪𝓽𝓪𝓵𝓲𝓮 𝓦𝔂𝓷𝓷  💎

I think part of the issue here is people disagreeing what counts as a “fetish”. That said, I feel weird about concept of “trans-amorous men” because it seems to position attraction to trans women as basically a special sexual orientation which fails to make sense to me.

The subtlety is that I’d rather not be sexualized solely for my transness and the way in which a lot of men (truly it’s CIS men) fetishize trans women has this layer of transmisogyny to it. It’s the sort of men who perpetuate “are traps gay?” logic and use us solely for kicks

I think it’s not a hard line of demarcation, like, a persons disposition goes on a spectrum from not being attracted to trans people to being okay with us, into us, obsessed with us, and I’m sure there people who fit into every nook and cranny inbetween, but if...