Someone sent me this IG post from a trans woman who recognized her own behavior in the video. And in my experience this is actually so common it's basically a stage a lot of trans women go through (a few never get over it).pic.twitter.com/zxugijJoDK
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Like Tiffany, Adria is not meant to represent any one particular person. And she's definitely not me. I'm nowhere near as bold and unashamed.
The other strategy not represented in the video is "going stealth," i.e. getting to a point where you cis-pass well enough that you can simply not tell anyone you're trans and just not have to deal with it anymore. This is the most traditional approach.
None of this actually works, except as individual coping. Because ultimately cis people have to decide to stop treating trans people like shit, and the responsibility for that does not and cannot fall on trans people.
But until that happens there are always going to be new Tiffanys showing up to sell out their sisters and souls for a cheap kind of temporary acceptance.
Really glad you did this thread. Helped me understand the video much better. At first I thought it was just dunking on conservative LGBT, Blaire, etc. Now I realize it’s more examining the ways trans people try to cope with a world that doesn’t treat them with enough dignity.
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