it is. let's take the transphobes out of the equation for a sec. do you get why a lot of women are upset about this type of rhetoric?
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I think 1. to have the "dating prefs can be bigoted" convo you have to tread with extreme caution so that people don't think you're saying..
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...they're bad people for not sleeping with person X. But I also think 2. no matter how careful you are, YT shitlords will respond as if—
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—you said "everyone has to sleep with me or they're racist transphobic Nazis"
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right. problem is the rhetoric shames ppl for what they *don't want to do*, rather than generating a deeper understanding of their sexuality
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yeah so here's where I'll agree: if someone says "I don't wanna fuck trans people" and you respond "that's bigoted"—that's not constructive
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ditto with "I don't wanna fuck fat/black/bi/etc" people
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Like, the individual preference is of course ALLOWED, but the focus needs to be on the social context that shapes the preference
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exactly. but the rhetoric around this issue (and many feminist issues) is focused on how individuals are bad people. completely wrong.
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yes. & some of the blame is on SJWs for having bad rhetoric, but plenty is also on the anti-SJWs who represent it as much worse than it is
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If what you're saying makes you sound like a bitter incel, they're not making you sound worse than you actually are .
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