I think cis people need a really candid talk from trans people about detransition, but that conversation is being made magnitudes more difficult due to deliberate misinformation and smears from trans-hostile bigots who have been working overtime to create false narratives.
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And I need cis people to understand this, trans people face constant pressure to detransition. I've even had someone I'd been friends with for years break down while drunk and plead with me "I just want (deadname) back, I just want my friend back..." and that kinda thing hurts.
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I've had doctors who suggested that medical issues completely unrelated to my transition could be solved if I just "changed back" and even family members who've made comments. That's not even counting the pressure we face to not transition in the first place.
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So I'm sorry if I'm labouring the point a little, but before I say this next thing I really want cis people to understand the trans community's relationship with and views of detransition. Prejudice, pressure, safety, family, poverty; these are often why people detransition.
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TERF claims that detransitioners are ousted from and treated horribly by the trans community are bullsh*t.
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In my experience, folks who have detransitioned have been treated with compassion and understanding, but I needed everyone to understand why that particular claim was bullpucky before repeating it, and underline why it makes no sense.
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Why would trans people seek to isolate and further traumatize those who have detransitioned, when in our experience they are likely to transition again? Regardless of the reasons, whether they decided it wasn't for them, or to due to violence and prejudice... why?
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Trans-hostile bigots like to pretend that this is some dirty little secret that the trans community doesn't want anyone to know about, and cis people would all be shocked if they knew detransition was a thing, but that too is complete horsesh*t.
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This is deliberate shit-stirring from TERFs to muddy the waters.https://twitter.com/CaseyExplosion/status/1222900707843399685?s=20 …
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Thing is, transitioning is a kind of therapy. Like physical therapy, mental health treatment, substance rehab, it's a gradual effort to recover from damage. And in any recovery, relapse is the rule. You do three steps forward, slip three steps back. Over and over. It's normal.
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Meant to say two back. Point being, any kind of recovery is always hard and slow and prone to setback and doubt. Sometimes detransitioning is a conclusion. Often it's a pit stop, brought on by despair and doubt. The main difference being, either is fine. There's no right answer.
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Čini se da učitavanje traje već neko vrijeme.
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