If someone doesn’t know your boundaries, they don’t know you. If someone isn’t interested in your boundaries, they’re not interested in knowing you.
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Think about the ppl you know who respond to you asserting boundaries with disdain or anger. Now think about the ppl you know who talk a lot more than other ppl, + have trouble giving ppl the space to talk. My hunch is there’s a sizable overlap in these groups.
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It’s not personal that they are not curious in who other people are, it’s just that they have a p tenuous self-concept that is easily threatened. Which is probably p hard for them. But don’t get it twisted, it’s unlikely they’ll suddenly feel comfy with your authenticity.
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Short version: choose to seek out time w/ the ppl who make it so easy to be honest about what you like and what you don’t. Fill up your life with them.
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