For those of us trained to be accomodating and understanding of abusive behavior a powerful question is “what would it take for me to respond to another person the way this person is treating me?” The entitlement JUMPS OUT.
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Because the abusive person’s belief they are entitled to treat people badly is incredibly easy to fall under the spell of. They believe abusive behavior is an unchanging aspect of who they are other people have to accept, and if other ppl don’t accept the behavior that’s mean.
