I appreciate the effort shown

Weirdly specific advice for detransitioners, a thread 1/

If you’re professional identity is still in the works when you detransition, switch your focus to that rather than gender identity. Occupying a more respected role in the workplace will do a lot for dysphoria. 2/

Don’t go into any kind of debt on appearance changes. If you want to do something like laser hair removal wait till you’ve saved the money up. In the time you’re saving the importance of the appearance change might diminish. 3/

It’s unavoidable that ppl will judge you for detransition, either that you’re flighty or immature or bigoted or whatever. Try to find some gratitude for the character this is going to build. 4/