Wedding planning makes me feel v disoriented and inept regarding my gender role.
The fiancée says “what’s important is you get the wedding you want” but the wedding I want is me waking up that day and someone else having done all the work, leaving me out of the discussions entirely and telling me where to go.
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I got married to my husband by a justice of the peace. I wore a (lovely) pant suit. For some reason it didn't occur to me to wear a dress. Zero pressure, nearly zero planning. Booked a date, showed up in her office, done. Went out for dinner with family & friends. Married 25 yrs.
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Did you get any grief from family?
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