“May their objective be to destroy you: that yours, is to take revenge with your success and achievements”.
Because I felt ashamed of what happened and didn’t want to publicly ruin someone’s life, even though they privately ruined mine #WhyIDidntReport
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#WhyIDidntReport, I was 4 or 5 years old, it happened to me in the cemetery behind the Catholic church in Monte Cristi, the Dominican Republic, I was sodomized on more than a few occasions, I was mute, I did not speak because I couldn't speak, I first spoke when I was six! -
That is truly heartbreaking. I'm so sorry. I hear you. You are not at fault. You did nothing wrong. I hope you can take steps to heal.
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Thank you Liv, it's been a long series of steps which have derailed my life in so many ways and additionally other tragic events which happened later in my teen's l that are just too intense to go into detail here, it has been a struggle, but I am a fighter who never gives up.
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It's hard, but now's the time to travel the road to forgiveness (starting w/yourself), stop the self-sabotage, and see what opportunities are in store. This will really show you just how strong you are.
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No there is never been any self-sabotage, I have and I'm very happy with my life and all the positive things I'm accomplishing, my goals and the creative process I lead and how I am always moving forward with life.
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I'm sorry! I didn't mean to infer anything. I shouldn't have written that. I really meant well.
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I know you didn't Liv, I understand and am very comfortably open minded, its ok Girl, we're here to help and not abuse those who are struggling with things, I understand how we can breach on someone's space but its kool.
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#WhyIDidntReport , because he was a family member and I was too young to understand what was going on until I got older because unknowingly I blocked out of my memories. And to this day I still can’t talk about it. I’m 20 years old. -
Same, but I started talking about it about 5 years ago. I had a daughter, and I didn't want her near him. I had to explain to my husband why. It started the process of healing and I forgave him to free myself from the weight of that hurt.
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People don't have to forgive to have a wonderful life. And therapists today say forgiving someone who has done nothing to deserve it is usually not good for us. But you do what is right for you. I'm sorry fow what was done to you.
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It lifted a weight off of me and it's not a constant struggle anymore. Forgiveness to me was part of growing up and out of the self hatred and destructive behavior.
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Oh Cara
Never be ashamed of the woman you are, thank you for sharing. Love always 
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I hear you. I'm sorry and hope you're ok. Virtual hug, if that's not too invasive.
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Stay strong baby, you will always gonna have somebody who are gonna be with you always, your fans. We love you, I love you so so much baby , stand by you
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