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@BonnyTurner1212

Rape victim failed by 🇬🇧 (in)justice system. Speaking out as it's . Fighting back with & against . ⚖

London & Melbourne
Vrijeme pridruživanja: veljača 2011.

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  1. Prikvačeni tweet

    Last mth I finally got courage to contact my MP . Given my traumatic experiences w/men, I felt wary about meeting him. He was so compassionate, sensitive & visibly affected as he listened to me tell my story for 70mins. I trust this man to be PM.

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  2. Also note: Years later, my friend's mother (also friends w/ my mum) told me she knew I disliked my piano teacher, and why. Her daughters had the same teacher, but she stopped their lessons after she'd seen him touch them inappropriately. And yet she didn't tell my mum.

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  3. Suffice to say that my mental health suffered greatly. My earliest memory of depression and severe loneliness was when I was 8 years old, the year after my family and I moved from a somewhat racially diverse area of Melbourne to a more homogeneous (white) area.

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  4. When I was 11, the man who'd molested me since I was 5 had a heart attack when he was giving me a piano lesson. He died I smiled I felt confused & guilty about that smile for years afterwards. I now know that I smiled because I felt relieved.

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  5. Separate 2 those incidents, I was molested from ages 5-11 by my neighbour/piano teacher. He would also show me photos he'd taken of children from his holidays to the Philippines; I sensed he was sexually attracted to them 2. I hated him but didn't have the words/power to say why.

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  6. At the time, I didn't show any obvious signs of distress, but I actually froze & repressed it. 20 yrs later, when a man masturbated in front of me on a 10AM train, I tried to call the police but kept accidentally hanging up on them as my hands were trembling with so much fear.

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  7. The 1st time I saw a flasher, it happened @ school when I was 5. He exposed himself by pushing his penis thru chain link fence. My friend cried about it @ home w/ her parents, who then told my parents, who then asked me about it. I felt really disturbed, but unable to express it.

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  8. I also want to talk about how common it was in my childhood (in Australia in the 80s) for men to expose their genitals to children, and how teachers would deal with it (shoo us away & call police) but not explain anything to us kids, or talk to us to find out how we were feeling.

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  9. My ACE score is 5 (which is high) but it doesn't take into account what I also consider to be my major childhood traumas; racism and bullying. It also doesn't recognise the compound effect of these intersecting issues, for example, racialised bullying and racialised sexual abuse.

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  10. Childhood trauma has a lasting impact on people's lives. Higher ACE score = greater risk 1 has of experiencing mental/physical ill-health. The ACE test asks about whether u experienced abuse, neglect or other common traumas in childhood. It doesn't ask about racism or bullying 🤔

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  11. The 1st useful tool that comes 2 my mind 4 recognising & addressing mental & physical ill-health risk in children & adults is the Adverse Childhood Experiences test created by : .

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  12. I stayed up late last night planning my week (with a different theme for each day) not knowing it's also , so bear with me as I make today up as I go !

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  13. It's & Awareness Week so I'll be highlighting different aspects of the issue, speaking from personal experience on why . I'll also b talking about as many children () experience(d) sexual abuse.

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  14. Thank you & for running such a fab day of workshops for women like me who are or want to be politically active. Loved the vibe & being surrounded by so many inspiring women. – mjesto: Twitter UK

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  15. Up at sleepy-o'clock to attend the London Women Stand workshops delivered by & . Looking 4ward 2 learning about Digital Self Care (by Glitch), Campaigning on Twitter (by Twitter) & 'Lights, Camera, Action!' by .

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  16. The concept of consent is often not sufficient to demarcate whether a sexual interaction was morally blame-worthy or not, because the dynamics between people are much more complex. – mjesto: Foyles

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  17. I'm listening to Linda Martín Alcoff speaking philosophically as a survivor on rape and resistance in the age of .

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  18. Stop the BBC from axing Victoria Derbyshire Show! ✍🏾 Funny how it's mainly (working@ home) women (& not men of the family) prosecuted/jailed 4 not buying TV Licences...& BBC axes feminist shows🤔

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  19. Stop the BBC from axing Victoria Derbyshire Show! ✍🏾 Funny how it's mainly (working@ home) women (& not men of the family) prosecuted/jailed 4 not buying TV Licences...& BBC axes feminist shows🤔

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  20. Bursting 2 share The Scream trivia even tho no1 asked 😂 I posted The😱 cos the mood fits, I've seen it in person & the artist's 🇸🇯. Yest I found out the artist (Munch) & I share same b'day (12/12), his deathday's 2day (10yrs since I got👨🏻‍⚕️attn) &👇🏽written on anniv of my rape.🧐🌌

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  21. Thanx everyone 4 ur kind words of love & support 🥰 Wish I could respond 2 all comments but after a month's hiatus from social media, my text 👍🏽 has become unfit ~ it's literally been tremoring since yesterday when I move it towards my phone! Might also be overcome with emotion😢

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