I realize that off and on over the years... I’ve been getting roped into that.
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When a woman likes you, part of HER liking YOU is her thrusting certain responsibilities on you regardless of how you feel about her. The largest kf those is you being her emotional support crutch.
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She’ll even guilt you about it if you don’t respond accordingly. You really don’t even know what happened. You just feel like this is something you are supposed to do. I’m speaking for me.
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The maintaining of her emotional labor not becomes your responsibility. You never even question it because you don’t even realize this is happening.
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We are all responsibile for our own emotional labor.
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And this is why some women are just so exhausting. I’m just realizing it. Wow. There is so much emotional weight they are tossing on you and you still got your own. Its heavy. But you are expected to carry it.
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Again. This happens from the moment she likes you. its weird. Its like part of her affection for you is expecting you to carry her emotionally. Think about that for a second.
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Its almost like you have no say so in the matter. Or any kind of adjustment period. You forget about your own emotional luggage because you gotta carry hers.
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Replying to @TheOTAPShow
Could you elaborate? I feel like I’m following you but an illustration would def help confirm.
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Replying to @BonaFideSage
Being expected to council, solve and soothe all of her problems
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I think the only gray area comes in between legitimately seeking counsel vs emotional dumping/needing saving. It’s not unfair to go to the people around you for counsel. That’s why I was asking for more of an illustration.
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