I really hate talking to y’all about love languages because there’s clearly bias against words of affirmation and for the life of me, I cannot understand why.
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Words of affirmation is literally speaking your mind to the person you’re with. You know how you look at them and be like “they’re beautiful”, “they’re so smart”, “i love them”... SAY IT ALOUD. DASSIT.
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It’s been warped into this thing that people think someone wants to be showered 24/7 with compliments. No. I’ve never met someone who’s love language is WOA and they felt worthless if they didn’t get on the hour reminders.
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The real question is why do you hate WOA so much? Do you have problems giving compliments and warm words to those around you? You might want to reconsider the reasoning.
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“I love you.” “I appreciate you.” “You are so special to me.” “I hope you have a good day.” All of these things are affirming. You should practice this not only with the people around you, but with yourself.
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I’m not asking you to say you love me every 10 secs. I can tell a corny joke, you laugh and you saying “you always get me with the corny stuff” is affirmation to me. Remembering my sauce at Wendy’s is affirmation to me. It’s hard for me to affirm others so I know both sides.
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So true it thought it was just me!
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