When we chat about what women put up with we have to really recognize the fact that (most) men know, if they wanted to settle down with a woman who’d put up with all his shit, HE COULD NO PROBLEM. Women are just not that sure. History has shown us how disposable we are to men.
And we can’t even chit chat about being a black woman because being a double minority in the DATING WORLD? We have to constantly prove our worth to men that might not see it. Or if they do, now we’re the “exception” to the rule.