This one guy that works at my company is always talking about women being attractive/unattractive to him. You know. Women on the internet. I told him to show me a picture of his ex. Told him I bet not EVER hear him talking that talk in my presence.
Boulllllllll per YOUR standards, your ex shouldn’t have been able to breathe your air. Alas, you spent 5 years with her. It’s not just aesthetics. These people have attributes that add to their worth.