It’s not about seeing it your way. The way trauma effects the psyche is not something that’s black and white. That’s why the statute of limitations is trash. You brain will want you to forget. Self preservation. https://twitter.com/darfucius/status/928841792728059904 …
Your brain will make it so you don’t even put yourself through additional trauma by going through the court of public opinion. Understanding trauma helps you understand why victims are indeed, victims.