Children begin to understand their agency when they are going through puberty which is why they sometimes lash out and rebel. It is natural and sexual urges are a part of that.https://twitter.com/xoxoxMinnie/status/1151265431488831488 …
I never said it was all about agency. But it’s not all about communication either. They are fully autonomous beings and no matter what anyone does as a parent, the child has the last say.