I’ve been thinking about this for a minute. When it comes to compatibility, a lot of it is dependent on one’s capacity. And you cannot just get the capacity to do certain things, you either have it or you don’t.
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This is why people say you need to stop trying to change people because you are trying to change their character and you just cannot. It’s futile. THEY can change their behavior, but their nature will ALWAYS stay the SAME.
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So instead of looking at a mate and thinking they can do xyz, you need to really go within and think: “Does this person have the CAPACITY to do the types of things I need in a relationship?”
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“Is this in their NATURE? The ESSENCE of their being or am I trying to project my needs onto them?” This is something I’ve had to learn for myself. And you cannot will certain things into existence. Especially character traits. That’s like wishing your birthday was different.
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