This the type of brat I aspire to be. Honestly I hate the word submission because it takes away one’s agency to choose (because submitting is to yield to a higher power) but I love to let men take care of me.https://twitter.com/lolameup/status/1082691882046623745 …
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Black women have this aura projected onto us of being fully self sustaining to the point of us being asexual. We should be allowed to express the feminine/receptive side of ourselves without it being taken advantage of by the men we entertain.
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But we can’t even express that side because then men confuse it for submission. Submission is if we went to a restaurant and instead of asking me what I was going to eat, the man ordered what HE wanted me to eat. Submission is accepting what someone wants to give you.
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I do not want submission. I want assistance and service. Be of service to me and order the food you know I like or have expressed to you that I want. Black women do this for men all of the time. Anticipating the wants/needs of your partner shouldn’t be seen as submission.
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