Once we get out of the colorism when it comes to women/motherhood we’ll eventually talk about how the gaze of men directly effects it. How men plant colorism in black women and make lighter women think they’re more superior and darker women inferior and how people perpetuate it.
I don’t recall seeing any conversation about this when it came to Spice bleaching her skin and even Kim with the work she had done. A lot of the way black women see our beauty is via the men we date or wish to date. Which is shaped by ____.