The issue we (women with sense) have with your messages to your fellow ladies is they’re always laced with rampant bias in favor of serving men while neglecting one’s own needs and wants. But y’all think that means we hate men. You couldn’t be more wrong.
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If women had more of a partnership rather than us having to take care of ourselves AND other people CONSTANTLY, you’d see happier women. More fulfilling relationships. But no, we settle for men who don’t even know what their kids school looks like.
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Men are catered to in a relationship NATURALLY. Unless he is financially to the point where he can pay other people to play those roles? Men use women. Maid. Chef. Therapist. Financial advisor. Teacher. Stylist. The titles are endless if you let them. Women want BOUNDARIES.
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Men + Women = Men living longer and women living shorter Women providing excess resources under the guise of patriarchy is shortening the life span of women. Statistics back this up. Look it up. It’s bad enough BW are dying after having kids but men are shortening our lives?
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On TOP of the everyday stressors black people have to go through you have the added stress of being a woman and dealing with hyper masculinity engrained in some men’s minds. It is torture. Ask your elders. They slaved so you wouldn’t have to.
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And y’all can say we are “looking too deep into it” but you haven’t looked into it at all. You see black women around you everyday SURVIVING, but SETTLING. SURVIVING but NOT THRIVING. Like a damn raisin in the sun. But we hate men. Please. We love y’all asses TOO MUCH.
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We love men to the point that we are willing to love ourselves less in order to ease your experiences on this earth.
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We love y’all enough to allow y’all to abuse us and not press charges. We love y’all enough to take care of you when you’re down. We love y’all enough to pay for your dreams. We love y’all enough to keep your ego intact! Stop telling me women hate men!
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