When we are ready to talk about the nature of authentic “preference” vs preference based on societal bias... these types of conversations will yield results. The truth is there’s no such thing as having a true preference unless your preference is for groups deemed less by society https://twitter.com/sarafromda_206/status/1018180226776379392 …
Now unless you have gone against the societal norms of what’s attractive, your “preference” is really just conformity and you need to be okay with that. Sitting in that. Admitting that. And eating your food when the rest of us are talking.