And you are very right i still think it’s trash to use that phrase to shame the victim in that situation
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It’s not shaming the victim though. The saying is correct. They’re only going to do what you allow. In most cases we let people in our space knowing they are trash and with that knowing still end up disappointed. Everyone plays a part in typical Situations.
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You i wouldn’t say that to a woman being beat would you???? I wouldn’t i just don’t like the phrase
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I said in typical situations. I am a dv survivor.
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We can go back and forth about why i prefer the phrase not to be used but it doesn’t change how either one of us feels...and I’m glad you survived and were able to get out of that terrible situation love


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