Yes, incels are 100% wrong on consent. If they could just get what they are after from a professional, they might then be able to see the irrationality of wanting consent for themselves but not for women, I think that's where you were going?
All right, you've got a point. But what happens when they try to shape up, and still get rejected, for whatever reason? If they were shut out of dating in the first place, and that's why they got mixed up with the incel stuff, and got these insane ideas, what's going to stop....
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.... history from repeating itself? How do they "shape up" successfully, such that they a) get rid of the crazy incel ideas, and b) then actually go on to succeed in normal dating they at first failed at?
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Step One: they need to value other humans as human, including human women. Step Two: they need to stop viewing women as a jizz receptical for them to earn/achieve Step Three: they need to learn to take no for an answer
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Those all sound like great prerequisites, but those things don't sound like the whole package. How do they succeeded, after accepting those things?
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They can get decent jobs and earn a solid living. Or they can go to college and learn things. Or they can travel the world. Or they can keep bees. Or draw comics. Or whatever the hell they deem success to be.
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Great! And if they, for whatever reason, are having trouble finding someone who shares those interests? They put their successes into Tinder and come up with zilch. Or they do get a match but it falls flat. What should their next course of action be?
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To move on with their lives like adults. They aren't owed antinder match, a date, a girlfriend, a wife, or anything the fuck else.
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I agree, they are not owed anything. But it's also not reasonable to expect them to live there whole lives with a basic human drive unfulfilled. If they can figure out how to act around sex workers, they should not be punished by society for selling out sex work, and the sex....
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.... Workers themselves certainly should not be punished for providing it!
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