I think incels are pretty clear that they crave sexual release, like any other person (who isn't ace) and can't get it, and that's what leads to all the rest. The unfulfilled thirst is what causes the craziness. Long term sexual frustration makes anyone crazy,....
....only cause was lack of fulfillment. I'm not trying to make excuses for this crazy incel aid, but rather to explain it and offer a solution.
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Really insane to me that you think the problem is “lack of sex” as opposed to “feeling entitled to sex”. Rewarding them for their shitty, hateful attitudes is counterintuitive. And where do you get the idea that their misogyny came AFTER they didn’t get sex?
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I get the idea because misogyny isn't born, it's taught. So, they go through life as children, not really knowing about sex. Then, they go through high school, and while others around them start getting sex, for whatever reason they get shut out. The kids who did....
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....get sex don't become misogynistic, because they have no reason to seek that attitude out. Their needs are already met, so they don't care. The people who did get shut out are angry, suffering, and start looking for answers, or ways to solve their problem. Guess who....
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....offers "the way out"? Incel groups, puas, ect. They say "don't worry, it's not your fault you got shut out, it's societies fault, and those mean old feminists. Join us, and we'll put women back in the kitchen, then you can have one and you can get laid too!" But other....
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.... kids who got sex never ventured into those areas, never went anywhere near the alt-right, because the alt-right had nothing to offer them. Nobody goes looking for the incel groups, where they learn misogyny, unless they are pushed into it by their own sexual frustration.
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Does that chain of events make sense? Is there anything about it that's incorrect? It all starts in high school, when they can't get on the same track as the other kids.
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No, it doesn’t make sense, because how do you explain all of the men who don’t get laid who DON’T wind up this way? In order for the PUA sites to even be an option they have to start as misogynists in the first place - normal men are repelled.
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In other words: it isn’t sexual frustration alone that leads them to these groups. The groups enhance their misogyny, but if it didn’t exist in the first place those lessons would find no purchase. We have a misogynistic culture, so they are primed, but they are still choosing.
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