A reminder that dudes popping up and saying "Incels should just use sex workers" are misinterpreting the root problem. It's not that Incels crave/can't get sexual release; it's that they feel entitled to female bodies. Often via violence. It's not fair to put that on sex workers.
.... telling them to get something that society won't let them have, and it creates agony, that leads them to these incel boards where they learn these crazy things. Some handle that agony better than others. Sex workers understand this. They get it and they want....
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....to ease the pain, because they have a high sex drive themselves. Of course they shouldn't be forced to do anything they don't want to. But they know the deal and they can help these people. Given an outlet for their sexual frustration, the hate will go away, because it's....
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....only cause was lack of fulfillment. I'm not trying to make excuses for this crazy incel aid, but rather to explain it and offer a solution.
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Really insane to me that you think the problem is “lack of sex” as opposed to “feeling entitled to sex”. Rewarding them for their shitty, hateful attitudes is counterintuitive. And where do you get the idea that their misogyny came AFTER they didn’t get sex?
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I get the idea because misogyny isn't born, it's taught. So, they go through life as children, not really knowing about sex. Then, they go through high school, and while others around them start getting sex, for whatever reason they get shut out. The kids who did....
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....get sex don't become misogynistic, because they have no reason to seek that attitude out. Their needs are already met, so they don't care. The people who did get shut out are angry, suffering, and start looking for answers, or ways to solve their problem. Guess who....
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....offers "the way out"? Incel groups, puas, ect. They say "don't worry, it's not your fault you got shut out, it's societies fault, and those mean old feminists. Join us, and we'll put women back in the kitchen, then you can have one and you can get laid too!" But other....
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.... kids who got sex never ventured into those areas, never went anywhere near the alt-right, because the alt-right had nothing to offer them. Nobody goes looking for the incel groups, where they learn misogyny, unless they are pushed into it by their own sexual frustration.
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Does that chain of events make sense? Is there anything about it that's incorrect? It all starts in high school, when they can't get on the same track as the other kids.
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