As long as you both still love and respect each other and work together effectively on this adventure called family life, that's great. The part where you are really horny and having sex all the time is just a youthful phase for a specific purpose. You're meant to move on from it
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This is why all the contraceptives and aphrodisiacs and viagra in the world keeps having diminishing returns. You're trying to stall the growth of your relationship by holding it in youth mode through chemical intervention. Doesn't really work. Your expectations are the problem.
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And you were given those expectations. By media, by educators, by academics, by "experts" who were all fundamentally on board with proselytizing the concept of the sexual revolution.
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There was nothing benign about their intentions. They weren't shaping these ideas in your head because they wanted to do what was best for you. They just believed that more sex was better and wanted everyone to get on board with that idea, to produce the society they wanted.
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And we've been living in that society for decades now and look at all we've traded away, just so that we can have sex with a higher number of people, without social shaming. Ask yourself - Is this really the best way to live?
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Replying to @BeigeShiba
Thanks for this thread, it's really well put, makes a ton of sense, and has got me thinking. But for some reason it also feels like really insulting and depressing on like, multiple levels that are hard for me to figure out....
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It's more that this is stuff that used to be really commonly well known and understood and has been deliberately suppressed as part of the agenda to reframe sex from a productive act to a merely pleasurable one. So, from some backgrounds, this will be "well, duh".
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Replying to @BeigeShiba @kittwhisky
I'm going through that Catholic convert phase of discovering "Oh THAT'S why they believe what they do, about sex".
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i just kinda want to figure out how we can have the best of both. Like, get most of the results of traditionalism without the rules having to be so broad and restrictive. I don't want to ever lose the 'fun, horny' side of myself but still prioritize family more than that...
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Replying to @kittwhisky @BeigeShiba
i dunno maybe i'm just kind of young and dumb and confused. I'm certainly not religious but i've been coming to understand for a long time now the utility of these beliefs and rules and why they've lasted like that. Maybe I just want to still draw furry porn when i'm old
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As you grow older, you'll begin to appreciate the divide between the erotic and the pornographic. Something for you to look forward to.
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I think I kinda understand what you mean. Thanks for your insight and your time. I use to use twitter under a different name, and your account has always stood out to me, i searched for it again when i made this one and i'm definitely not disappointed!
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