in reality, most experiences like this do go unshared, and if they didn't, they'd be picked apart by The Discourse
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Replying to @BagelDaughter
"when you X" and "who else does this? /wow i thought i was the only one!" seem to work at satisfying this desire
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Replying to @fire__exit @BagelDaughter
not sharing the experience, but CONFIRMING it
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on a related note, i feel repulsed by those, especially a reddit-style "i thought i was the only one" bandwagon
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Replying to @fire__exit @BagelDaughter
maybe bc the difference here is they don't want to share the experience, they want to confirm the experience was shared
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Replying to @fire__exit @BagelDaughter
might be me playing at being special but if i saw someone do/express something i thought was specific to me i wouldn't be all
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Replying to @fire__exit @BagelDaughter
"wow i thought iiii was the only one!!" i'd be like "why did you do that, how did you learn that" unless it was mundane
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Replying to @fire__exit
I think there are two responses- first is that curiosity you just described. Truth/meaning-seeking
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second is personal/relational validation of the experience, for the original person's sake. Legitimate & necessary, & personal
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but a lot of ppl lose sight of the purpose of the second thing, and learn poor strategies for supporting each other
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e.g the DAE ... ? reddit pattern
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Replying to @BagelDaughter
hah, i forgot it has a name. you think an abbreviation means the actual act has died?
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Replying to @fire__exit
might hmm, maybe. I find myself looking for nonstandard phrasings of things when trying to say something genuine & heartfelt
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