Oatmeal Agitante

hm, I do feel some impetus not to have too many of those tho

so, case by case judgements whether what must done is abandon the pleasure or abandon the guilt

find it can go one way as often as the other depending what info exploring the preference yields

an "I'm over that" bin and an "I'm over apologizing for that" bin

the important choice is how much time you continue to spend on it ...

... Whether it's spent "apologizing" or "masturbating" both might be wastes of time

the third bin is "I dunno but deciding on that just isn't that important to me right now"

not feeling like deciding whether I'll stand by it or not is worth the time usually implies no