need to get better at saying "no" to people
i get caught up either:
1) people pleasing
2) not wanting to look pompous or a b!tch (gendered, i know)
3) getting FOMO and/or guilt
symptoms of a lot of weird internalizations, but curious to know ppl's mindset on it
FOMO is my arch-nemesis man, I feel this. Especially when people come to me and say, "Why didn't we do this again?" or "This would have been cool did you not have time to do it?"
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Weirdly I guess it's not exactly FOMO, but I'd say it's definitely an internal struggle where my first instinct when someone comes to me with a problem is "I can fix that, I must protect." but then I had to learn to ask "Is fixing that going to make problems for me?"
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Absolutely. When I see a hole I can help fix (and know I can improve it with my involvement) to aid the team, I jump on it. Then the problems for me start swinging and I'm like:pic.twitter.com/d9RSRXKJjm
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