The men whinging about being denied sex don’t actually like women as a whole person. They just want hot women that will fuck them they way they perceive sex to be. It’s not safe for sex workers to have angry, violent men imposed upon them.
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I get the "become humane" part. But what if it's looks? What if it's they just don't get the dating scene?
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Dude. It isn't looks. The ugliest man on Earth is married and has a kid. It's the fact they they are utter trash fires.
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Ok, but they weren't born as utter trash fires. At some point, they were shut out from normal dating for whatever reason, and ended up finding the incel groups out of the resulting sexual frustration, who then taught them all these creepy ideas about women. How do they fix....
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.... The initial problem that led to the incel groups in the first place, which was they got shut out of dating early on?
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The problem started before kindergarten. Every movie shows the hero earning the girl. Every boy is taught "boys will be boys" and that they deserve a girlfriend someday. It is drilled into them from birth, YES FROM BIRTH, that we are theirs for the taking. We're not.
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And they get upset because we DARE to tell them "no". We "shut them out" from dating. THEY
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They want the fantasy they were promised - a gorgeous woman awarded to them as a prize for checking of specific life goals. "I have a job" so fucking what "I'm good at sports" woo "I'm an actor" "I'm 25" That shit doesn't matter. A woman is not a prize. She's a human being.
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I completely agree. Sex workers can refuse any client. And yes, resenting the right to refuse is a real problem. But learning to cooperate with a sex worker and not be abrasive, is a world away from dating and finding personal compatiblity with someone else.
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Again, you don't understand how things work. Someone willing to rape and murder "regular" women is even more likely to commit such atrocities against a sex worker, because the police are known to do a half-assed job investigating when the victime is a sex worker.
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Ok you have a good point there. I think that once legalized, sex workers can have their own security if they feel the need. What do you think the solution should be? Is there a better one?
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My solution would me to tell all the incels to shape up or fuck off, and then to ACTUALLY PENALIZE SEXUALLY MOTIVATED VIOLENCE
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How would you reform the justice system in this manner?
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The system is in place, but most of the people in charge of doing this job are men who empathize more with rapists and harassers than with victims.
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So just more female judges and police officers would do the trick?
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No. Screening cops for their abuser tendencies.
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Unbelievable that people should be expected to be virgins their entire lives? I know incels have serious issues. But to say "well, you can an just be a lifelong virgin" is unbelievable too. There are solutions that fix the incels without hurting anyone else.
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Why? Monks and nuns do it. Besides, they can buy pocket pussies. As has been REPEATEDLY established, 1) sex is not a right 2) they are sexless because they choose to be unfuckable
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Monks and nuns are religious. Religion is false and bad. That's not a place to go looking for answers. What happens when they try to not be terrible, and still get repeatedly sit down over long periods of time?
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Monks and nuns are people who choose to be sexless. Proof that it can be done. And if they get shut down, the proper response is to move on with their lives like adults.
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No, they are the deepest kind of religious adherents by definition. They are incoctrinated to take joy in their suffering. That's not anything anyone should aspire to emulate in a modern world. Again, if after being shut down repeatedly in normal dating, what is wrong with....
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.... Them looking for release with a sex worker?
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Sex workers don't deserve to be afflicted with their bullshit.
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