Post-separation 'co-parenting' with an abuser is doomed to fail. One parent always puts 'others needs' before their own, and one parent chooses to put 'their needs' before others; their ego blinkering their 'capacity to parent'.
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Replying to @RWatson_insight
1/ My first flag it was going to be bad. My son (then 8) asked if it was ok to see his dad 1 day every weekend rather than all weekend every other weekend. I said- any thing you need. His father said-no I want to be able to go away and visit friends when I don’t have you.
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2/ then blamed me and said it was my attempt to keep control of him ( not my son). It got worse.
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Yes! They never consider the child's wishes (although this ultimately goes in the healthy, safe parent's favour, if you can ride the storm). The child eventually wants to control matters themselves and will start to reject contact. The 'parental alienation' counterclaim follows.
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Replying to @realfoodfans @AnnaRowe123
I know, it's so hard to deal with. Note down each 'negative experience' the child has (such as this) and the effects of that behaviour on the child. Keep a list for the future. It's frustrating to watch it happen but the
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I did just this. I kept a diary of it all. It meant I could document the ongoing behaviour and effects. I was so incredibly lucky to have CAFCASS that saw through him. I know it’s rare.
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Great to hear that Anna
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