Anna Rowe

Gotta love ex husbands & naïve ex wives: ExH: “Yes, I got a bonus & redundancy payment but they are NOT income; they are just like winning the lottery so I don’t have to give you any for child maintenance” ExW: “Oh, okay” Needless to say I shall now be assisting this lady

The problem with the maintenance system is that the calculation regs are outdated and unfair. Created for a time when less women worked, but stayed at home. Needs new legislation to reflect modern families.

Interested in why women working more affects a calculation for maintenance to either partner when they have the children at home to look after?

Because it doesn't take the mother's income into account. Maintenance should seek to put both parents in a viable position to co-parent, not just take a chunk of the dads income regardless of circunstances.

1/ You don’t understand the system then. It works either way not just for the father. If the mother ‘doesn’t have the children’ then she still has to pay regardless of income. It’s set on parameters of time the children are looked after by a certain parent not who earns more.

2/ both parents have equal responsibility regardless of income. To say otherwise is ludicrous. Also, Maintenance Paid covers a fraction of actual cost, it’s bare basics. What would the non contact parent pay for that child were they still in the home as part of the family?