In that I’m meaning the behaviour of paedophiles but used with adults.. the grooming for the purpose of sexual exploitation.
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Replying to @AnnaRowe123 @ghostsofmerthyr and
Where does ordinary romancing & "chatting up" end and "grooming" begin???
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Replying to @Peter_Kirkham @ghostsofmerthyr and
Have a read of this Peter, it might help you understand: https://catchthecatfish.com/how-the-hell-did-this-happen-to-me-how-adult-grooming-works/ … this is one of thousands of research pieces. I’ll send you another to help you with the sex side of it too : http://www.thriveafterabuse.com/red-flag-9-hyper-sexuality/ …
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Replying to @AnnaRowe123 @ghostsofmerthyr and
You gave a great line in patronising comments...
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Replying to @Peter_Kirkham @ghostsofmerthyr and
I try my hardest when people seem to make light of what happened to us.I’ve sat with too many police who dismiss this saying ‘but is doesn’t look like normal rape’ no it doesn’t but it doesn’t mean it’s not real.I hate using the word rape but I could not give genuine consent.
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Replying to @AnnaRowe123 @Peter_Kirkham and
He knew we wouldn’t had he told us the truth.
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Replying to @AnnaRowe123 @ghostsofmerthyr and
Just as many who lie about or exaggerate all sorts of things on first or second dates!
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Replying to @Peter_Kirkham @ghostsofmerthyr and
Exaggerations of height or weight make no difference to ‘intent’ for the relationship. Saying you’re single when you’re married means you have no intent for a ‘relationship’ it’s about the benefits. The other person may well be ok if you tell them. So give them that choice.
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Replying to @AnnaRowe123 @Peter_Kirkham and
Married guys that meet a woman by chance on a night out, have a fling, is more likely a spontaneous meet. Setting up a fake ID and a dating profile means he had the intention to deceive knowing from the outset ‘the relationship’ was never going to happen. He never meant it to.
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Replying to @AnnaRowe123 @ghostsofmerthyr and
So "spontaneous" lying is OK but planned lying is not... We're back to where do you draw the line? How much planning pushes it over the edge?
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What I said was a spontaneous meet that resulted in a one off fling may not be premeditated like a man intending to abuse, as mine was.
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