True story: At ICLR this year, I went up to a poster by someone I met the previous day, and had to ask him thrice about his poster, before he actually gave me his pitch. He seemed more interested in chitchat. Many more stories, but c'mon - minorities can also talk research!https://twitter.com/MaartenSap/status/1018287668772233217 …
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Replying to @swabhz
A drunk guy aggressively hit on me yesterday at the reception. asked if I was here alone and didn't know anybody and wanted some company. It was funny to see when I said I was a professor. But also remembered the time when this was true and how uncomfortable I was then
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Replying to @AnimaAnandkumar @swabhz
Well, here is another side of another story happened in the same reception dinner.. Scheduled and planned a meeting with a lady researcher to ask if she is interested in industrial research. She preferred internship. Explained her that internship cycles for this year r over 1/2
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But will definitely check with my HR still and later msged my email to share her CV. Never uttered a single word outside research/work.. Got a response from her that as I didn't have any open internship or job offers, I had been unprofessional. Not sure what to say here..
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Replying to @sethu_dxb @swabhz
You were in position of power over her. You made her feel uncomfortable although not your intent. You can apologize. in future you can communicate better. you can state what positions are open before meeting. Instead of being defensive, you can think about self improvement
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Replying to @AnimaAnandkumar @swabhz
Frankly, yet to recover from the shock created by her response. But yes, point taken. Will try to improve upon them. Thx.
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Thank you for sharing your experience. Many men become defensive in such circumstances saying it is not their intent and they should not be blamed. The power and gender dynamics in society play a big part. Being aware of it and understanding experiences of #womeninSTEM can help
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