What’s the best modern theory of what turns people into bullies? Is there any truth to the movie trope that it’s a sort of punch-down cascade due to being abused at home? That seems very unconvincing to me. It feels like at best one kind of etiology that accounts for a fraction.
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I’ve known bullies with mild-mannered weak parents and no visible bigger-bully in their environment. The more plausible general mechanism seems to me to be that people develop an addiction to intimidation/brute force as an easy way to get what they want.
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It's like the extractive economy of personal traits. Once you've landed on that, you abandon more sophisticated ways of dealing with others, just like petrostates abandon complex economies and the structures of mature democracies.
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The source is twofold: did something give cause to try this path and if so, were you allowed to pursue it?
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This assumes everyone responds to stimuli in the same way. Some people respond to "not allowed to pursue it" by pursuing it HARDER
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