Concluding that I am a racist and that's not going to change, but that I can and should at least do my best to avoid any malicious overextension of racism. Might as well be open about it. Malcolm x said the Wolf is better than the Fox. I hope to be a different species altogether.
The ideal is institutions or social conventions that are robust enough to prevent cognizance of racial differences from becoming opportunistic oppression. As long as zero sum games exist race will always be a Schelling point for group competition. We have to build our way out.