Their is no universal trans experience and any attempt to "humanely" regulate trans people based on a universal ideal of transness is doomed to replicate transphobia. TLDR: let people do what they want with their own bodies and identities or fuck off
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I'm trans despite choosing to be cis, throwing away my entire life trying to be cis, and being physically and mentally tortured to try to make me cis. That you have the luxury of existentially confusing your person and your gender is repulsive to me.
You're right, there isn't one "trans brain", there are probably a number of them. And I won't rest until every one of them are labeled, defined, and injected into the common understanding to the point that any sense of joy or authenticity associated with gender becomes impossible