A recurring problem in my life is this: It is a weekend. I would like to go out, do something. I don't know anybody who I would like to go out with one on one. What fun things can I go out and do by myself? How do I find out about them?
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If you want to dance you can find a social dance class. They have intro classes sometimes on weekends. Then it opens up to people who know more and you can watch or find someone to teach you. You get to meet people too. Sometimes it gears towards older people. Ut worth trying!
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i'm actually trained in competitive ballroom! I love social dance classes. There's none near me on weekends that I know of that aren't blues.
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You should look at tourist guides for things that appeal to you, go do one of those things. Lots of specialist guides. Or check out Atlas Obscura for interesting stuff.
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I'd recommend taking a phone + headphones and wandering around the city with an audiobook. It's what I used to do. I'd imagine I'm planning an underground railroad of spies and courier trails. Helps me learn more about the world, and combat anxiety.
Yet as a man I'm left alone.
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Go out for supper, sit at the bar, talk to your neighbour. That's always hit or miss. See a movie, go to the zoo. Go to a concert.
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It is like an interactive play. You wear a mask and aren't suppose to talk to anyone.
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