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I would really like to learn how to have 'girl magic' in a way that feels organic and comfortable for me. Has anybody successfully done this for themselves?
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'Girl magic' as in, body language and mannerisms that are attractive when done on a woman. My typical mannerisms are very ... agendery? and not very attractive.
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I can replicate 'girl magic' fairly well, but it feels like I'm a mime pretending to be a character and it's pretty exhausting when sustained for any long period of time. I'd like to have the ability to assume it as a default setting and not get tired by it.
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Are you sure that is an ability that exists? I was under the impression that "not getting tired by it" was part of the act. Kind of like rules around makeup: no makeup -> ugly and lazy bad makeup -> trashy good makeup -> "you look so good without makeup!"
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I’d be interested to work with you on this. In a couple seconds of thinking about it, I’ve determined that a lot of my ‘girl magic’ comes from feeling physically fluid. Also maybe hypnosis?
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Emotional interdependence is what I detect as girl magic. When a girl doesn't want to have to be manly when there's a man right near her who could solve a problem in a manly way. So she's just emotional around him with the expectation that he solve the problem in his man way