I would really like to learn how to have 'girl magic' in a way that feels organic and comfortable for me. Has anybody successfully done this for themselves?
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'Girl magic' as in, body language and mannerisms that are attractive when done on a woman. My typical mannerisms are very ... agendery? and not very attractive.
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I can replicate 'girl magic' fairly well, but it feels like I'm a mime pretending to be a character and it's pretty exhausting when sustained for any long period of time. I'd like to have the ability to assume it as a default setting and not get tired by it.
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It really depends on who you want the magic to work on. For the biggest effects you would have to adopt a fairly "mainstream sexy" wardrobe and learn to be comfortable wearing it out in public. Much of the magic is from confidence and ease.
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Perhaps you view much of it as arbitrary and silly. Maybe thinking about why those behaviors are there evolutionarily will allow you to “own” them more. Make them feel more like things you want to do, rather than arbitrary social constructs.
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I don’t know if one can? I’ve known three women in my life that have this weird charisma beyond “looks” that is radically attractive to men. Hard to define.
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I don't think it's something you can learn, I've tried myself. The most that can be done as far as I can see is embrace the things about you that you can do well and without effort. I know that's kind of a bullshit answer but being inauthentic just to be "attractive" doesn't work