The ability to build, hold, and wield power, decisively and responsibly.
Seeing the broad civilizational and historical perspective, and acting locally, now, to promote the well-being of family and tribe.
Being able to shift between serious ferocity and whimsical play.
Give me enough time, and conceivably I could say something that wasn't poisonous. Not happening right now.
The traits I value in men seem to be missing from the majority.
I'm trying to think of this with the genders reversed and it sounds very socially unacceptable. "Most women suck. The women I do keep close are exceptions."