The ability to build, hold, and wield power, decisively and responsibly.
Seeing the broad civilizational and historical perspective, and acting locally, now, to promote the well-being of family and tribe.
Being able to shift between serious ferocity and whimsical play.
Give me enough time, and conceivably I could say something that wasn't poisonous. Not happening right now.
The traits I value in men seem to be missing from the majority.