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You think it's probably _____ traumatic (in the long run) for an attractive older female teacher to have sex with a 14 year old boy student, than an attractive older male teacher to have sex with a 14 year old girl student?
  • more
    3.6%
  • just as
    49.5%
  • less
    46.9%
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Thinking back to when I was a 14 year old horndog, trauma would have been zero. It was wished to be & many friends also had the fantasy. I also knew a few girls that actively sought a "much older BF" simply bc they thought it cool. Adults are the source of the judgement.
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"More" because it's MUCH less common than the others. Easy to argue that the opposite is more "ingrained" in human DNA than "woman in power using young boy". Also, one theoretic example: 14+yo boy has to deal with attraction to him being inherently a wrong AND uncommon thing.