i put a hefty beer in me and now i feel social, ama
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I feel very unattractive most of the time and my hindbrain is convinced that men express interest in me because they are desperate
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People generally live desperate lives to avoid the giant emptiness inside of them. You should question the motives of males and still feel attractive. You deserve this and owe it to yourself. But what the fuck do I know?
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i had a long relationship once with a partner who revealed to me, a year into the relationship, that he'd never found me attractive and didn't really want to have sex with me. We were poly, and he was sexing other, much more attractive girls on the reg. this fucked with my head
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This person was a bad person - you are quite attractive, your physicality only complements your intellect.
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What I was trying to say is that this person was extremely insensitive wrt how his actions might affect you. It was cruel to say things like that, considering that he was probably aware of your issues with attractiveness
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